5 Steps to Immediately take if your nudes are being used to Blackmail YOU.

Rachiyta JainCyber Security, Law179 Comments

Sharing nude pictures over WhatsApp, iMessage and other sorts of messengers has become a pretty common activity across age groups today. What ordinarily follows these temporary (thought of as permanent) relationships is revenge porn which is the reason behind so many giving up and committing suicides. The pictures which were then shared voluntarily are now used to blackmail. If you or your loved one is a victim of such a crime please do not feel pathetic about yourself because people are there to help, you just need to ask for it. Please be bold and take the following steps:

1. Do not delete the message

If you are one of those who goes on like this :

STOP.! These messages are a very important source of evidence. By deleting these messages, you are destroying evidence.

2. Take a screen shot.

Often the accused uses fake accounts to blackmail the victim. In some cases, after the account is deactivated the chats are not visible as well. That is why it is best to take a screenshot as soon as you receive such messages. These screenshots are also helpful when filing complaints or gathering preliminary data for investigation. The screenshot should capture the time stamp along with the message.

3. Get Expert Help

File an FIR or contact the woman helpline service quickly. Often people don’t approach such services because of the fear of giving out these images or lack of adult help. Rest assured, these people are experts and they receive such complaints every day. Your photos will be dealt with confidentially. You may get in touch with us at contact@cyberblogindia.in or on our WhatsApp Helpline at +919340337396 to talk to one of our cyber crime specialists.

4. Do not give in to the blackmailer’s demand

No matter what the blackmailer says, do not give in to his demands because there is no assurance that he will stop. The only word you need to understand is ‘consent’. If you don’t wish to give it, don’t be forced to.

You will just make him feel more powerful and provide him with more material to blackmail you further.

5. Talk to a friend, family member or us

Give voice to your pain and talk things out with someone. You will be amazed by the amount of weight that lifts off your chest. You can also reach out to us on our contact details shared earlier and we’ll try our best to help you.

In any such case, your photos in these situations are dealt with on a case to case basis. This is not legal advice. If your photos are already shared on WhatsApp, a pornographic website, Facebook or any other platform, it is best you contact the police with adult help as soon as possible. If you are a parent reading this post, please support your child to take an action. The post has been made light for the audience to understand with ease.  Such cases should be held earnestly.

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179 Comments on “5 Steps to Immediately take if your nudes are being used to Blackmail YOU.”

  1. I am an Indian n met an US lady online n she asked me to add her on whatsapp which i did.
    She chatted with me n asked my name pkace n photo of mine which also i gave

    Next day she asked for a nude photo of mine which j stupidly send again
    After that she started to blackmail me n told me if i dont pay her INR 3 lacs US$ 4500/- then she will send my pics to Indian Media n Television
    She has given me 10 days time
    I have no alternative other than ending my life if she really does
    Pls help me

      1. Hii.I send some of my nudes to a boy. Now he’s blackmailing me that he’ll viral the photos if I don’t have sex with me. Plz assist me in this. But I don’t want my parents to know of any of this.

          1. Hi can someone help plz.
            My profile was active social site I got video call asking fr nudes with my foolishness I did without thinking. Ltr dey have recorded nd shared and blackmailing for money. I have payed huge money. Now am in a position to end life as I can’t take this. Any one can help me would lik a god to me. Please help me

  2. I am a Nigerian I got a message from a lady on instagram telling me she was going to pay me ₦100000 only if I could sex chat with her. Eventually I fell for it then she asked me to send a video of me naked in which I stupidly did, only to find out he is a guy not a lady he threatened to report me to my school in which they will expel me or he should send it to 85 guys in my school. Or I pay him today in which I haven’t pay him. Am so scared I don’t know Wat to do

    1. Hi Hannah,

      You must talk about this with your parents or an adult whom you trust. Along with this, this incident must be reported to the police authorities so that the accused can be put behind bars.

      Please stay strong and do not give up to his demands in the future.

      In case you need any further assistance, feel free to write to us at contact@cyberblogindia.in.


      1. Sir I’m in big trouble, my age 20, a women made a video call to me. It was a numbere i did not know. They were not dressed. She told me show your body. I showed up in my miainformation suddenly she disconnected call, then she sent me a video, it ot was a video of me with my body, then ahe blackmail me, it was a men who called me. He ia cheated me now asking gor money what can i do

          1. Hey my name is krishna I am an indian I send
            My nudes to a boy now he threatens me to have sex with him otherwise he will viral my photos to my friends but please I won’t let that my parents should not involved in this

        1. Hii bro i have also faced the same issue from a girl blackmailing me to send money otherwise she would post my nude video in all social media websites..i dont what to do now

          1. Hi, with required legal and professional help, I believe you can deal with incidents like these. If needed, you can write to us at contact@cyberblogindia.in or get in touch with our WhatsApp Helpline at +919340337396.

  3. Hi a guy said he was an army man n started chatting with me .. which led to mature conversations n then sex chat … I did send him nude pics n videos but without my face … but now I got to know that it’s all fake . Now he says if I hurt him he will publish those pics to my family n frds . What do I do ??

      1. Sir today I had to come across a girl she wanted me to send the nudes she sent it first and to my foolishness and I sent her back as well and photo of my body where my face is not visible only half face and right now she is blackmailing me asking for 5000 rs tomorrow itself
        Please help me sir I’m from a very poor family
        Please get me out of this

        1. Hi Roshan

          We have responded to your email and discussed this with you on our WhatsApp helpline.


          1. Haii Sir,
            I got an WhatsApp call on saturday recieved and they have recorded video and started Blackmailing and i also paid 10,000 through phone pe, but still they are Blackmailing to upload video in youtube and social media pls help me

  4. sir, i am in a big trouble i am 18 yrs old boy. 2 yrs ago i chatted with a house wife and she asked my intimate photos due to my foolishness and curiosity i sent my intimate pic to her. then i thought of my parents and then i unfriended her on fb and now she again came and asking me to do whatever she needs she is asking me to send more photos and go to her house etc. i cant cheat my parents any more. i dont know what to do.. she is blackmailing me that she will send those pics to my family members.. if she does so i will die… i dont have any other options please help me.. i dont have much dare to tell this to my parents or any others.. please help me very urgent … i cant hold this tension in my heart … please kindly help me

    1. Hi Bazith

      I have shared the contact details as a reply to your mail. Please get in touch with the number shared and we will try to assist you in the best possible way.

      Raj P

  5. i am a boy i had some intimate situations with my gf and one day one girl took screenshots of that chat and videos and blackmailing us. i dont know what to do.. she is blackmailing me that she will send those pics to my family members.. if she does so i will die… i dont have any other options please help me.. i dont have much dare to tell this to my parents or any others.. please help me very urgent … i cant hold this tension in my heart … please kindly help me

      1. Hi sir

        im in a critical situation please help me.i chat with a unknown girl in Whatsapp after some time she told to do a nude video call.my foolishness i did nude video call without thinking after that she recorded the video and blackmailing to upload the videos in online if i dont pay money.please help me sir

          1. im in a critical situation please help me.i chat with a unknown fb girl she told to do a nude video call.my foolishness i did nude video call without thinking after that she recorded the video and blackmailing to upload the videos in online if i dont pay money.please help me sir

          2. .i chat with a unknown fb girl she told to do a nude video i did nude video call without thinking after that she recorded the video and blackmailing to upload the videos in online if i dont pay money.please help me

        1. Mughe kal day me messanger par main baat kar raha tha tabhi payal jain name ki ek larki se mera baat hua aur wo mujhe video call karke gandi tasveer dikha mughe pareshan kar rahi hai aur paisa maang rahi hai mera mobile no bhi leli aur bol rahi thi tumhara video viral kar dunga you tub par please help me sir

          1. Hi Santosh, main is tarah ke cases se familiar hu. Pichhle 15 mahino me karib 1700 cases hum logo ke paas aaye hai. Kripya aap meri team ko contact@cyberblogindia.in par email likhein ya fir WhatsApp Helpline +919340337396 par sampark karein. Mujhe puri ummeed hai ki meri team aapki madad karegi.

  6. SIr I am a teen ager and i am aged 17 and i am from India and i have some serious situations about my friend…the main topic is my friend named Subham is in a really big trouble and I don’t want my best friend to get in this big trouble….4 years back mybest friend had made a friend ship with an woman and had chatted with her and this woman was from Pakistan;according to my friend’s chat… and day by day their friend ship grew nearer and suddenly one day she asked my friend to share a naked pic of him and he stupidly gave her some three or four naked pics of him…but later then he unfriended her as he felt that it’sall insane and he felt like he is cheating his family and friends…..and after 2 years of this tragedy the Same woman requestedhim on his fb id and this time she had changed her name and send him his naked pics…at the time he again remembered the tragedy which was related with him 2 years ago….and then the lady blackmailed him for a blowjob and he denied this all then she threatened him that she would share this pics with his friends….but he blocked her and in surprise was that he came to know that…she was no lady but a third sex person from Pakistan,….who wanted him for a vulgar use….and then the person made a fake id of my friend using his profile picture and send friend requests to all our friends… and all did accepted his(the third sex person ) friend request and after accepting his request he started to send his pics to all our friends and all friends did informed Subham and him that is this all real and he as he was feeling really shy he regretted and requested all our friends to keep this matter between our friends…and the trouble was solved as we all reported the fake account on fb and the matter did all solved and a matter of fact is that Subham said that what ever the person wanted to do with his photos but he won’t do this vulgar things at all costs and subham blocked him….
    BUt now as we know that a enemity with a close friend is more dangerous than enemity with a fatal enemy…..so one of our friends named Sadanand has these naked pics of subham and he is blackmailing Subham cause one year before Sadanand’s pics with his girlfriend in room was leaked by one of our friends but we don’t know him/ her as the pic was taken by a girl who is our friend and now Sadanand has some miss understanding with Subham cause he always visited to the girl’s house in study matters or her parents were inviting Subham to their house as the girl is a child hood friend of Subham and bothof their families are likely friends and know eeach other since their childhood and Sadanand is now thinking that Subham has done this all with her help and so Sadanand is threatening Subham that if he doesn’t proves his innocency in this case and if he will out the real criminal then he wil publish all those pics in media…..and we two are afraid to inform this all tragedy to our parents..,cause if i inform to my parents then the character of my best friend will be down and i don’t want it at any costs aan not only that mg parents won’t allow me to be friends with him again if they wil come to know this all…..and if this all will cometo know to Subham’s parents then he will be dead….. sir i want to save my friends life and his character without harming our parents sentiments and without their knowing of tjis all…..and i want the other friend to be punished well cause if he would be our real friend then he wouldn’t do that type of shame less things and not only that all ourfriends are well concerned with yhis all tragedies but no one is coming forward for help leaving me…all are neglecting this……leaving me and as i have a good friend ship with Sadanand so i can’t abd my friend Subham also doesn’t want me to interfere in this trouble as he loves me a lot and doesn’t want to make me an enemy of Sadanand for his sake….
    So please sir i am humbly requesting you for some ways to get my friend to get rid of this trouble or we two are thinking to inform police about Sadanand…and his black mailing….
    So sir please can you tell me about the Indian laws of these types of situations and the penelty or fines or punishment withall the laws in a described manner…..
    Please Sir please save my friend….as you have helped all these persons above me and as you seemed me as an expert and kind so sir please help us a way out…….

  7. I need help my sister became victim of fake celebrity a/c the a/c holder edited her pic to the nude pic can u plzz help us what should we do

    1. Hi Sir,

      I am in critical situation. I was chatting with a girl on online dating site. After some days she told me to do live video call. Then we started with nude video and she recorded my nude video. In excitement and without trust I have done a great mistake. She is blackmailing me that will post video on social media. I don’t know what to do.
      Please help

  8. sir,
    i am an relationship with someone and i want to move on from him but when i was said him to move on he said he never let me go.. he blackmailed me for my nudes photos and said he will show everyone my nudes sir i m in very huge problem please suggest me. he cheated me and only used me he never agree to marriage with me and never agree to leave me

  9. Hi,
    I read your post. I need your help. A guy sent me a request on Jeevan Saathi matrimonial website. He was apparently from Texas. It was made by his Uncle. Anyways long story short I sent him some pics but not with my face. Bastard tricked me into sending them as he was away and wanted to feel close. Now he’s blackmailing me for 2000 dollars. please help me. I deleted the messages and pictures out of anxiety. what should I do?

  10. Hey,
    A week back a guy sent me request on matrimonial site jeevan saathi. He claimed to be from USA and was very much serious about marriage. Long story short things proceeded at an alarming rate and I sent him a couple of my nudes without my face. He has started blackmailing me for 2000 dollars. He has threatened to publish them if not paid. Please help me. Out of fear I deleted his messages as I was too embarrassed and humiliated for being so foolish and immature. Please help me. I thought of committing suicide but I dont wish to hurt my mother.

  11. I want help someone has my nudes..and he shares with everyone through snapchat…he saves the pictures and shows to everyone……i dont that my parents would know about this pls help

  12. Right now iam in Bangalore ,I was in a relationship with a guy ..now that guy is threatening to publish my private pics,he really misbehaves me a lot …now when I don’t listen to him ..he mentally harshes me al lot saying he will leak my photos

  13. Dear sir,
    Two days back I did a mistake by bringing massage girl to my home along with one male person. They made video while doing massage I. Which I was nude but at that time I did not find it what there are doing . Now I realized that the did video recording. What should I do now still now they did not approched me for money demanding. But now in very pressure and afraid of their future plan wether they upload in pornsites .. please help me sir ..my mind is not working now.. beacuase of my stupidy now in trouble.. please help me sir

  14. sir, I’m a 17 years old girl. when I was 15 I sent nudes to my friend, we were like more than friends. I intentionally stopped talking to him after I changed my school. I blocked him from everywhere but somehow he contacted me and was asking to get intimate, again. I ignored and blocked him again. He hasn’t blackmailed me till now. We arent in touch for 7 to 8 months. He tried to contact me but he couldn’t. He never talked about leaking nudes. What if he blackmailed me? what I can do? I can’t tell my parents.

  15. hi
    my friend sent her nudes to her boyfriend but somehow his friends got hold of those photos and are admitting it. we tried to solve the matter, deleted all the photos that we found in their laptops and phones but after 1 year it got posted on social media. the girl told her parents about this and they can’t fire an FIR as they are worried about their child’s respect. we still don’t who has the photos please help us

  16. I am very bad situation
    My uncle is balckmailing me he has my nude pics if i don’t listen to me he will show that pics to my parents
    I am very afraid
    I love my dad if he get to now about such pics he will never talk to me
    Plzzz what should i do

    1. Hi Vaibhavi

      Please write to us at contact@cyberblogindia and the team will get back to you immediately.

      Raj Pagariya

  17. Sir plz help me . someone is balckmailing and threatening me and saying that he will upload my nude video with a lady on YouTube which he recorded while on video call on watsapp which I provide him because of my stupidity and ignorance and daily calling me and asking for money and I paid him so much money till ..next I don’t know what will happen I’m so sacred and depressed by this incident ..if something happens wrong to me then I have no other option to live in this world..just because of my ignorance I fell in this trap..please take me out from this trap as soon as possible.. because its fare killing me inside ..day by day…I can’t tell to anyone my problem plllz for God sake …help me help me help me

  18. Hello sir…on 28 may night 1 callgirl offers me whatsapp video call, unfortunately I respond but she asked me to get naked …at the I was completely loss abt future consequences…next day morning she send me recorded video call and asking me to give her money…I gave her 10000 rs to delete that video still she is insisting more money… otherwise she is threatening me to upload video n photos on social media…sir please help me from this owise my career ,future will get ruined…I won’t do this mistake again in my life and will definitely prevents other’s too from such incidence… please help me….till date no evidence of uploading on social media and fake calls for demanding money also stopped… what should I do?

  19. A friend of mine received a mail with subject ‘your stolen nude pics’.
    It used a throwaway email id and said ‘Looks like your “secret” snaps got exposed, they are on this site’
    Can it be a threat? I opened the link, there was nothing
    Please reply ASAP

  20. My ex is having my nudes and is blackmailing that he will send it to my parents if I don’t talk to him… I’m in a situation where I can’t tell my parents… He has my parents number … He’s daily torchwring me saying if I don’t talk to him I will have to video call Him and please him or else he will send those nudes to my short tempered parents ?

  21. I am facing a critical situation.
    I was chatting with a girl on online dating app after some time she asked me to make nude video call. Then i stupidly in excitement i started with nude video and she recorded my nude video .Now she is blackmailing me that she will post video on social media.
    Please help sir

      1. One girl from FB requested me to add her as a friend. Then I added her she messaged me slowly she asked me my wats app number then she messaged me in that to come in personal video chat. She started asking for nude video.suddenly after few mins recorded and blackmailing me for the demand of money. I did wrong thing that’s a great mistake in my life.
        Please help me out for this

  22. Hi Sir please help me
    I m in difficult situation right now. I was staying with my male friend for entire lock down, My marriage was fixed but we decided we will not do marriage now, we are just stying because we both are alone in this difficult situation We both are at our home , now he is blackmailing me that if you will not marry me i will send our photographs to ur home or ur in-laws home and ur brother, He always drinks and abuse me every night and also abuse my parent and sibling, now this is a suffocation situation for me, i am a strong girl i have done so may thing for my home but now in this condition i always think that i should attempt sucide, Only sucide can finish all probs ..Please guide me what will i do…please guide me

    Please sir please help me please.

  23. Sir please help me I stuck in a critical situation someone is blackmailing me that he would change my pics into nudes he’s has got my one or two normal pics please help me sir ! I can’t share this with my parents kindly help me sir it’s a request ! Please help me

    1. Hi
      I just checked. The team has responded to your email as well as on our WhatsApp helpline.


  24. Hii , I’m Simran and I’m 18 years old . Last year I had a boyfriend so one day he forced me to share my intimate videos . I trusted him and didn’t want him to leave me so I became a bit stupid and shared my video with him and after some days I got to know that he had shared all my videos to his friends and relatives and even to some boys of my school . Now, many unknown boys are calling me and troubling me . I had to delete all my Instagram accounts to stop getting cheap and vulgar messages . Please help me , I don’t want my mother to be inlvolved in this cuz my father is no more and she will not be able to handle this situation . Please help me !!!

  25. I am altaf working in saudi arabia .some one make my video in mooq dating aaps and now blackmailing me I give money already but he viral my video in Facebook massenger friends just help me i am very tension fell like suicide. I am very afraid I am not feeling good and if situation will same so definitely I will suicide. Please help me i have blackmer account no mobil no .

  26. Sir my name is joel
    Last 3 days I am using realu app so one girl RIYA sharma. So she told me and share me her whatsapp number i am save but when I sms hi and she will call me and nude video with me. And one time she want my face but it is my fault then girl told me she want pay option. So I am deny all the time and she give our chating nude video then she told me if I am not give 500 so she transfer my video facebook, whatsapp, instragram. And today morning one boy name is ashis sharma he told me that he is calling youtube channel subscriber and if I am not fullfill his demand ₹3100 rupees. So he will send my nude video for cyber crime. I am not want his money pay service but she force me again and again.kindly do something. Now I am give you all the photo and there number. And realu app female name is RIYA SHARMA. please do some thing .

  27. Hi Sir,

    I am in real problem, I got in contact with a girl by insta and contacted that girl to whatsapp and telegram for enjoyment purpose, but for some reasons she makes me believe in her talk and takes thousands of ruppes from me and now she is not giving me back , I am in big trouble, please help me, I have lost lots of ruppeed coming in influence of her talk, please help me, I am thinking of suicide, coz my family don’t knows about this that I have gave this many ruppes to a girl just by getting in influence of her. Please help me with this, I don’t know what to do, I can’t even tell this to any one because of shame that I approched her because of enjoyment but she took away my lots of ruppees. PLEASE HELP ME !!!! I AM SCARED, I am feeling to do suicide due to so much loss of money.

  28. Hello sir , yesterday I got a number for paid video calling n unfortunately without thinking of anything I receive the video n she asked me to show the nude body of mine n was just not in my mind of such things n after I disclosed my nude body she disconnected the call and a youtube link was sent to me in which my nude video call was there I paid money still he is blackmailing that he will upload my video on YouTube I was so much scared I deleted all the chats and blocked him also but today in the morning he again called me n blackmailed me n told that he will upload it on YouTube please help me out I m in much trouble sir plzz .

  29. PLEASE HELP! Sir I’m in big trouble. I’m 20 years old. I got tricked. A women made a video call to me. She was not dressed. She told me show your body. I did’nt show although my camera was on and face is visible. Suddenly she disconnected call, then she sent me this video, it was a video of me in bathroom. Now he/she is blackmailing me. I guess it was a men who called me. He is asking money constantly. I blocked his number. He is texting and calling from different number. He is sending so many voice notes asking to pay immediately. He has my facebook id, so I deactivated. Because he is threatening to release it on Facebook, Youtube. He is sending SS of his channel that he is uploading this on Youtube.
    I have his g-mail id, his two phone numbers, his paytm number. All of it. Please Please Help. I am very scared. I am a college student and I can’t believe I got played like this. I regret those 2 mins the for the rest of my life.

  30. Hi
    Before some days i got friend request of Payal sharm in facebook she took my whatsapp number
    Then today she texted me on whatsapp and talking to me nicely then she said she will do nude vedio call . She was on nude vedio call and she ask me to do something .. because of my foolishness even i did . But she had recorded everything and she is blackmailing me she telling it will upload on social media .
    I have all the profes that she insisted me to do soo
    I have her screenshot.

    Please help me what to do now .

  31. Sir,

    2 days ago some lady called me suddenly , its a video call and she was nude and she was recording it and i was not aware of it. after that I disconnected it and blocked it. then she sent that video where my face is visible watching her nude from other number along with my facebook friends list. she messaged that she would send that video to all my facebook friends and family that i was watching her nude and she blackmailed me for money to delete that video. i paid the money but still they are blackmailing me .i have their bank accounts and paytm , google pay details . Kindly suggest me what to do.

  32. A woman contacted me through Facebook and took my number and initiated sex chat with me through video call. She asked me to go to the bathroom and videocalled me in which he was naked and asked for me to undress too. After undressing she disconnected and later started black mailing me with my nude photos asking for money. Later a call came where a man said he was from Delhi police and that she has done a fir on sexual harassment. She is demanding money from me or that she’ll put my video and pictures on social media. Please help me for I’m in the verge of breaking down. I cannot even confide in my family.

  33. sir date:08/12/2020
    I’m Sahajada . I’m from Kolkata. Today I was scrolling some dating website then one web site name is Mequeres app. I logged in . Then one girl massage me the girl name is Riya. She gave her number. . She say whatsapp me. Then I say her Hi. then she whatsapp video call me so I answer the call then she ask to see my private part but I refuse. Then the she edited the recorded video & send me & blackmail me that she share my picture & videos tell everyone one that I’m Rapist. Please sir reply this is urgent.
    I have all massage of her & edited videos
    Yours faithfully

      1. sir a day ago one girl massaged me you want nude call service then pay amount i paid money but she blocked me i think its scam what procedure i make next or leave that issue naturally
        i have confused please give me suggestion about that please

  34. Hi I am Prabhakaran from india,
    I don’t know if it is a girl or not but unknowingly stupidly I sent a nude video of mine… Now he/she is blackmailing me for money already.. Please help me please I feel like suiciding… Please I beg you

    1. Hi Prabhakaran

      We have discussed this with you on our helpline number. We also tried reaching out to you during the day but we did not receive any response.


  35. hello Sir,
    I m Kashya and I m 18 years old
    some days ago I got one Whatsapp number of a girl from one dating site after talking to her on Whatsapp she wants to do a video call and I agreed with her.
    the next day we had a video call and she was nude and ask me to show private part of mine and foolishly I showed not thinking that she can record the video call and blackmail me after sending me that recorded video and told me that give me money otherwise she will upload a video to all social media platforms. And between this, she asked my name and I told me some random name as “Rajesh” but she got my real name from the true-caller app.
    after that I was scared so I had given some amount of money but I told this matter to my father and he told me that block her and don’t give her more money. after that she messages me from two other numbers showing that she uploaded a video on youtube but within half an hour the video got deleted by that account itself.
    after that day everything was going well but today one guy named ” Joginder Singh ” (I don’t know whether it is fake or real) called me that he was pretending to work at *Cybercrime branch Delhi* that the girl filed a complaint against me and he sent me one screenshot of complaint (I don’t know whether it’s real or fake ) but most probably it’s fake and the guy told me that if I want to close this matter I have to give 10400 Rs something as a Government fee otherwise he is going to pass the report to High court and here I was little scared but my dad told me that don’t worry this is the way of blackmail you.

    Sir, I have all screenshots of messages and I have recorded the call by that guy Joginder Singh a Cyber Cell person also but we don’t want to file an FIR unless this matter goes beyond the scene or other thing because my father is a working man and
    I am also a student and don’t have that much time to go to court and all these matters.

    please guide me on what should I do as soon as possible because thinking about this is affecting my studies also and is there any reason I should be worried.
    please really I need your guidance as soon as possible.

    yours faithfully

  36. Few months back their was a girl who messaged me on Instagram by saying if u do online sex with me I’ll give you a very good amount and send me your nudes videos and pictures and I felt to it stupidly and in reality that id is using by a boy now he is blackmailing me and saying I’ll send it stuff to my friends and I am a married women I can’t tell to my family my husband will give me divorce
    pls tell me what can I do pls tell me

  37. Hello my ex boyfriend is blackmailing me that he will share nudes ..I don’t want to be with him .he is forcing me to be with him. I don’t want my family to know about this matter as they are not open minded they will kill me or suicide if they will get to know any such thing about me ..please help me ..he is in Australia , he threatens me that I cannot do anything against him if I make a complain also .please I want to get rid of this ..Help me ?

  38. Hello sir mujhe ek problem ho gyi hai maine azar apps par call kar raha tha ek ladki ne mera no manga maine de diya usne mujhe video call kiya wo bhi nude call tha usne mujhe bar bar niche ka dikhane ko kaha akhir me maine usse niche ka dikha diya aur usne call cut kar diya uske 5 sec baad me ek video bhejti hai jisme mera nude video hota hai aur wo mujhse paise ki demand kar rahi hai nahi toh wo mera video viral kar degi usne mujhe screenshot bhi bheja hi uploading ka .sir aap hi bataiye mai kya karu mujhe bahut tention ho rahi hai . Isiliye mine usse bol diya ki viral kar do mere pass paise nahi hai

  39. hello, some one has contacted me through messenger, then she asked me whatsup number , i sent her . after that we made conversation , then she made me online vedio. then she sent me this message.

    My brother, you must listen to me carefully. If you make a mistake blocking me you’re screwed, somehow I pretended like a girl to have you when I’m a man like you and live in the world. I recorded all the videos and photos that you spent with me. They are with me here; even I have all the information about you here; in addition I also have all the information of your family here I also have all the information of your colleagues. if you make a mistake by blocking me I share your video and photos to all your friends on face book without exceptions and in addition on all the sites around the world that I share
    So tell me if you would like this video of you shared on all these online video sites like:

    On social networks around the world
    I’m not here to hurt you

  40. Hello sir meri dosti ek ladki se hui facebook par ham log kuch din bate kiye fir usne mujhe apna what’s app number diya fir ham what’s app par bate karne lage uske kuch din bad usne mujhe what’s app par video call kiya sex karne ke liye boli maine uske sath kiya lekin usne mera video bana ke mujhe blackmail karna chalu kar diya boli mujhe paise do nahi to mai social media par uploade kar dungi sir mai kya karu mai bahut garib hu

  41. Hello sir I m from india A girl looking like korean or chinese called me with an application called google hangouts and asked me for showing my nudes i stupidly shown her then she recorded her screen nd told me that she will send this video to all my followers and asked me 100$ for not doing this
    Sir i don’t want that my parents will know about this so sir plss help me without reaching my family

  42. Sir,
    I’m in a trouble. A woman shared her number to me on a random video chat app. She sent a naked picture on whatsapp and wrote that its her figure. Then she said that i have to pay 500 if i want to see her fully naked. But i was not ready to pay her a single rupee as i thought that she’s a fraud. Then later she said that she’ll show her body if i show my face and get naked, and i can pay her later. She called me on WhatsApp, she didn’t shown her face but i showed my half face and body. She suddenly cut the call and send me a screen recording of my video call with her. She said she’ll upload it to everywhere like facebook, Instagram, twitter with my number showing on video call. I didn’t replied her after that but she kept texting me and said that if i pay her she’ll delete my video. Please help me to get out of this matter. And i dont want to let my family know about this. Please help me if you can, without knowing my family about this.

  43. Hello sir
    I am 17 and a month ago I was talking with a boy online he is 1 9 he send me his nudes I commented on it but then I realised my mistake but he then asked me for mine but I refused but he has my normal pic I am scared can he make my fake nude?
    He was angry with me as he said that I had a fun with his nudes but now when its his turn I am not sending him mine , I blocked him but he has my 3 to 4 normal pic , I am scared will he create my fake nude?

    1. Hi,

      I would recommend you to get in touch with the local police or child helpline of your city/district. For more information, you can contact us on contact@cyberblogindia.in or on our WhatsApp Helpline at +919340337396 and my team would be glad to assist.


  44. Hello sir i am in trouble one girl gave a friend request in fb and she came for chat in messanger and over there she asked my number i also gave my number suddenly she came in whatsapp video call she was nude. she ask me to come to private room by foolishly i did same after she cuts the call and record that video she blackmailing me. i deactivate my fb account n messanger too i delete all messges from her and i blocked her no too. after two days ong guy called n said he is from cyber crime investigation officerdelhi. he said my video got uploaded in youtube. he is asking money to delete that video in youtube i also paid of 40k now he ask more amount to pay i dont know what to do please help me out. And i dont want to let my family know about this. Please help me if you can, without knowing my family about this.

  45. Dear sir,
    Some one have my nude video call recording I am a man. She is asking me to pay. I ashamed to say I made huge mistake first and last time ever. I got her contact from lovely app. As I deleted chat and contact from my whatsapp I also don’t have that much details.
    Kindly help me.

  46. Hello Sir,
    Someone I don’t know have my nudes and that person is blackmailing me with some fake account on instagram. please help me with that

  47. Someone threaten me in whatapp that she threaten to share my private video in Facebook to my friends and family.. And asking money..Please help me..unfortunately I received a video call and loose my control. Already mail in your ID.. Pls help soon

  48. kal ek ladki ne FB Per mere se Chat ki uske bad usne mere se Mere whats up Number Mange aur video Call kiya aur nude call ki bat boli . call krne k bad usne muje screen shot aur
    meri video calling ka video share kiya aur paiso ki demand ki . aur nhi dene per
    video upload ki dhamki Di. aaj subh uske group k 2 logo ka call aaya wo bol rhe
    ya to 2150 rs De do taki Hum apka video Hata denge otherwise case krege aap per .Sir pls meri help kro pls

  49. Sir,
    I was connected one women in CuteU app and exchange the number. After that I got connected in the live video call and in excitement I showed my nudity part. Now she is blackmailing me. Sir what to do. I have also send you mail at contact@cyberblogindia.in and in the whatsapp +919340337396

  50. Hello sir my name is nikhil dhar actually on June 5th night i found a dating app in which one girl or a boy I don’t know did a video chat with me and recorded my nude video of his and her.Now she is framing me to give money again and again ,otherwise she would upload my video on social media I actually also paid her some money in this misunderstanding that she will delete my video but she is still asking for money.sir I have deleted whatsapp also not using social media also please help me that she won’t be able to post any such video I can’t even tell my family don’t want my family to get into this

  51. Hello Sir,

    I have made a mistake and fall in the prey of a girl of nude video call, now she is extorting money from me.
    Have already paid some and now she is demanding more… Else she is saying that she will send the video call recording to everyone in my family, friends and make it viral.

    Pls suggest sir what to do..

    I know I have made a mistake by talking to her.. But pls help me sir

  52. Hello Sir,
    I received a message from a girl via Facebook messenger, we started chatting then suddenly she asked my WhatsApp number which I shared. After that, she wanted me to undress in a washroom and to do nude video call which bymistakenly due to excitement have done that. After that she recorded my video and sent me and demanded money to delete the video otherwise she will post on everywhere in social media.
    Sir, I then realised it was a fake Facebook a/c who is a man and showed me recorded nude video of a girl which I later came to know when I googled. I suddenly blocked his/her number, locked my facebook a/c and deleted chats. It is trending now in pandemic and I fall in this sextortion and honey trap gang. Now, I am alert and this is the biggest mistake of my life and will never make this happen again and prevent others to fall into.
    Sir, I am from a good family background and relatives. Please help me out as I can’t discuss this cyber crime matter infront of my family and I am in hesitation to report FIR on this as my whole career, respect and image will be spoiled.
    Please help me out online to resolve it as I am in huge trouble and it is hurting me deep inside.
    Thank you

    1. Hi, we have received 1800+ cases like this in the last year or so. Please get in touch with my team at contact@cyberblogindia.in or on our WhatsApp Helpline at +919340337396 and my team shall assist you accordingly in dealing with this incident. Thanks!

  53. Hello sir,
    I am from Odisha and I’m in love with a boy from Bihar. Sir Iast year I’m just 14 years old and the boy was 18 years old. Sir he was asked me for nude photos many times and I’m agreed atlast and send my photos. Sir now he blackmailing me for viral those in social media. Sir now I’m in 11th class and our result realeased on July 20
    sir I want this solve before this. Sir I don’t want that my parents or anybody know this. Sir please solve my problem and help me please sir . I want this to solve Quickly because I’m in stress around 3 months. Otherwise there is no option without suicide 😢😢.

    1. Hi, I can assure you that suicide or self-harm is not a solution. I believe one of your parents has contacted us regarding this and we have guided them in terms of the steps that have to be taken. In case they have not, please reach out to us at contact@cyberblogindia.in or on our WhatsApp Helpline at +919340337396.

  54. Hi I am an Indian. I met a guy in SNAPCHAT and his id is xain9061. We had an affair sort of thing but he denies now. We sent nudes to each other and now he recorded them from some other phone and now he is threatening to leak if I don’t send more in the weekends. I blocked and reported him but I came to know that he is sending them to some other people. I am scared to share it with my parents so I reported here. He’s catfishing too. He said that he is a Belgian but he is an Indian blackmailing many girls.

  55. sir, a girl in instagram is using a page called fitness trainer so me and my friend thought to text her for weight loss and she asked for some of our pics and nudes for measurement and later we came to know that that was actually a guy who texts us in the name of girl admin without our knowledge he made fool to both of us and now he is blackmailing us to talk with him daily in sexual manner or else he will share the picture to my friends or in social media . Now, I am alert and this is the biggest mistake of my life and will never make this happen again and prevent others to fall into.
    Sir, I am from a good family background and relatives. Please help me out as I can’t discuss this cyber crime matter infront of my family and I am in hesitation to report FIR on this as my whole career, respect and image will be spoiled.
    Please help me out online to resolve it as I am in huge trouble and it is hurting me deep inside.

  56. Sir
    My name is Bilal and I am from srinagar. One of my fb friend Nikita Sharma  invited me on whatapp video chart and traped me in a nude chart. She immediatly send me a recording of our video chart and threatned me to upload the same on social media, fb, instragram, youtube and will send the same to my fb friends through messanger. She asked me for money which i refused. Next day i received a call from unknown number pretended to be a police officer from Delhi and told me that there is a complaint against you. I know he is also the member of this gange and wants pressurise me for extration. I have deleted my fb account. Now I am affraid that if they will  upload the video or send to my friends, it will destroy my life….please help me

    Bilal Ahmad
    Jammu & Kashmir

    1. Hi Bilal, my team is proactively helping individuals in dealing with incidents like this. Can you please contact us at contact@cyberblogindia.in or on our WhatsApp Helpline at +919340337396? I am sure we will be able to assist you. Thanks!

  57. I am a boy a i found a number and texting through whats app. And she or he call me after that he is doing blackmailing that he will upload it to social media..
    Is it possible to upload such video on social media?
    Now what should i do?

  58. Hi can someone help me please.
    I got video call asking fr nudes with my foolishness I did without thinking. He or she have recorded and shared and blackmailing for money. I have payed huge money. Now am in a position to end life as I can’t take this. Any one can help me would lik a god to me. Please help me

    1. Hi Sidhartha, from whatever little experience I have, I can assure you that suicide or self-harm is not a solution. You are stronger than this. I have shared contact details of my team in the other comment. Thanks!

  59. Hi, last year i met this person through snapchat i was just 17, out of excitement and curiosity i sent him nudes and he sent me his. When i released all this was wrong in few month i told him i don’t want it anymore he was fine with it in the beginning but then he told me he had recorded them and sent me one saying that he has it. He didn’t demand for anything just that he didn’t want me to block him. Later he contacted me through instagram and we negotiated i thought that was the end. But he texted me again on snapchat. He kept telling he has it and he wants to see me i told him i dont want that. Then finally i let my emotions take over me and i told him many things saying “its not like your word against mine, its my word against yours, though i was willing to share them it doesn’t mean you can record it. If i were you i would never do something horrible like this you have a lil sister what will you do when the same thing repeats with her and stuffs”. He then said lets be frnds but then i said i don’t want to talk to him anymore and told him that i will block him before i could do it he did it himself in snapchat and then i blocked him in instagram
    I am worried everyday thinking about this. I really regret what i did and at the same time i feel everything will end once i commit suicide

    1. Hi, thanks for reaching out. From whatever little experience I have, I can assure you that self-harm or suicide is not a solution. Can you please reach out to us at contact@cyberblogindia.in or on our helpline at +919340337396?


  60. Hello sir. Something similar happened with my brother. He lives in Canada right now. Yesterday someone called him and asked him to open a link he did that and all his mobile data got transferred to that person’s phone including his pictures and stuff. After this that person blackmailed him and asked him for money-$500. My brother sent him that also. Later on he video called my brother and asked him to undress himself or he would share his personal data online. My brother did what he asked him to but he recorded the video call and now is blackmailing him again. Plz tell us what to do

  61. Hi Sir ,
    I had day before got a video call from unknown number and just opening it a video of naked girl showed . O meanwhile I put it off I think they recoreded and calling me like they are from youtube and trying to extort me ..what should be the next step . Ihave there phone number

  62. Hello Raj and team,
    thank you very much and deep regards for the assistance provided when I was dealing with the issue. You have been a source of moral support and courage to deal with the situation. Really appreciate the helping spirit and guidance.


  63. I am in critical situation. I was chatting with a girl on FB massanger. After some time she told me to give WhatsApp no. do live video call in WhatsApp. Then we started with nude video and she recorded my nude video. In excitement and without trust I have done a great mistake. She is blackmailing me that will post video on social media and family and friends. I don’t know what to do. She said she is from Pune.
    Please help

  64. Dear Sir
    I’m in a critical situation please help me sir. I started chat with a unknown lady in Whatsapp two days back, after sometime she called nude video call and asked me to remove all the clothes my foolishness i did nude video call without thinking after that she recorded the video and sent me in the WhatsApp and blackmailing to upload the videos in social media if i don’t pay money which she was demanding Rs. 10,000. I said i don’t have that much money. If you don’t pay i would upload in the social media. Then, she had given phonepe number and asked me to pay how much i have. I had transferred Rs. 3000/ . Again she is demanding money sir otherwise she would upload the video. please help me sir

  65. Sir mere pas ek call aaya tha sir mene use receive kiya or usne mere video or photo ke screenshot le liye ab o bol rhi paise pay kro ya m social media pr photo of video upload kr dungi,sir I am student,I am so scared please help me

  66. Hey i met this girl on okcupid she messaged me on whatsapp and started a nude videochat after a few minutes they send screen recordings and blackmail me to pay money in my scared foolishness i have already paid 6100 rs now they are asking for more please help they are blackmailing me to post it on social media and t media

    1. Hi, Hi, you should get in touch with my team at contact@cyberblogindia.in or on our WhatsApp Helpline at +919340337396. We have received over 2600 cases in the last two years and my team is actively helping our clients in dealing with such incidents. I am sure we will be able to provide the necessary assistance to you as well. Thanks!

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